I am not here to judge you, but as a wife who has been cheated on, let me fill you in. You say she (his wife) is the megabeast just as he described. What are you thinking? Do you think he is going to say well, she's a good person etc. He is trying to justify his actions. I have been on the recieving end and yes that other woman thought I was this and that. My heart was torn out, I had to go to work ( we all worked together, different shifts) and see her every day knowing she wanted my husband to leave me and his daughters 5 and 6 years old because they were "in-love". News flash when you make a committment you have a responsibility to resolve it no matter what ends, regardless, before you think about getting involved with someone else. You make think his wife is a bitch and may be she is but hon, I am sure she has her reasons. If he was as dishonest with her as he is with you no wonder she is pissed. I don't want to hurt you but you should know that he as a witness is probably very ashamed of his relationship with you. Please think about what you are doing. Do you want your child to be raised that way? To be trained at lying, like his father. I can tell you, there are a lot of liars in that religion, they have to lie or lose everyone they love. If he won't be a man to stand by your side and say I love her, and that's that, then, you deserve better and so does your child. I can guarntee you that he isn't telling you alot.