a quiet moment on the beach

by teejay 27 Replies latest social relationships

  • teejay
    If some jealousy (in mild form) isn't demonstrated occasionally, it can too easily be interpretted as indifference.

    Then what?

  • little1

    I have to agree that a look - brief - is written off as normal and forgiven, a prolonged jaw-dropped stare, though, is insulting to both women present. Be discreet guys. We know you look, but be discreet.

  • Mecurious?

    Yep, after 10 years of marriage I finally got caught looking at another women. I thought I had it down to a science, but nope not this time, I got cold busted. Believe it or not before that the subject had never came up.

    Thats the main reason I like wearing shades. That way I can look at these women in my own privacy.


  • teejay

    @ Merc. You straight up crazy, Dude!!

  • pettygrudger

    I agree w/most women wanting their men (and vice versa) to know that they're with someone who's attractive to the opposite sex. Both sexes I think thrive on "competition", whether conscious or sub-conscious.

    But, if a casual look at a member of the opposite sex is enough to send a partner tripping - something's wrong. Either the person has self-esteem issues or the relationship has some security ones.

    I think if it's a healthy/happy relationship - and the individuals in it are healthy/happy, there's not going to be an issue. Your partner will automatically know that with you they are #1 - and won't feel threatened by you noticing beauty in ANY form.

  • Rabbit

    I'm lucky I guess. My wife appreciates a nice body, too. I've seen her get a little 'shiver' when a 'hunk' goes by, I say, "W-w-hat? "Whew, she says, that guys butt gave me goosebumps."

    And at one of the ApostaFests...a lot of guys got pinched as they walked by her!

    So-o, I get to look, too!

  • MelbaToast

    My hubby and I have an agreement.

    He gets to look and comment just as long as I get to too!

    We are both people watchers, so we always see the same people.

    But victorias secret catalogs in this house are a nono!!!

    Not until they come up with a victors secret one for ladies ! lol

    my .02


  • JustTickledPink

    In situations like those, my husband looks at me and says "She almost looks as good as you" and proceeds to kiss me. I know he's lying and sucking up, but I don't care. He loves me!

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