"They know it's the truth, but just don't want to live the lifestyle."
Exactly - boy I've heard this so much Smart move Kwin
It being a religion, such internal matters are outside the jurisdiction of most Western courts.
Hey, just thought of something......you should preface your letter so that it is read "in confidence" by a "clerical" representative. How can they tell anyone the contents of this letter and then turn around and plead "privacy protection" (or whatever the legal term is) in another court say, in a molestation case. Be specific on what they can and can't say to the public.
Do they uphold other's confidential matters only when it suits them?