It was so nice to have a reply from you, and to know a little more of the background of your life too. As to the major point you mention, where have you read the the 'nice, kind etc etc' person who we see every day is going to be killed by God? The simplest answer is to let the Judge worry about that, and guess what? That Judge is not me, not you, not any of the brothers, not the Society, the only words we have from the creator are in Scripture, and even that is subject to various understandings, as you know.
I think of several things. There is going to time when the Judhe acts. It could be toady, tomorrow, ages away, and who knows? Only the Father. In the meantime, for all of us 'be awake', but 'stop judging, lest we be judged'. I also think of the verses in Thessalonions speaking about the two classes whom Jesus will turn his attention to, 1stly the ones who do not know, 2ndly, the ones who do not obey....
So who are those? Not your or my business, is it. If we read how God feels, He doesn't want any to be destroyed, but wants all to attain to repentance. If we don't, what next? In other words, if we are kind, nice, humble, sorry for any wrongs, at least he should have hope. true?
Howabout just read Hosea chapter 11, and Jonah chapt 4, and see how you would answer that major question you mentioned to me........and would you be good enough to share your thoughts please?
It was really nice to hear from you, it seems you are worrying too much about matters you shouldn't be, I do the same, so it's the pot calling the kettle black here! But my wife and I are just doing our best to help people, not be their judge. We were df'd years ago after an awful time in my life, but it is not a cloud over us, been reinstated for 18 yrs, there would no doubt be a few still critical, as we hurt a few family members by our wrongdoing at the time, but ---- those in glass houses shouldn't throw stones.....true?
Take care and thank you,