LOL ... Corvin, is it an order !
LOL, sorry. It was not an order, but simply enthusiastic supplication.
It's just that when the idea was first presented to me, I did have to think about it. The very idea that there were specific things my significant other unconsciously did or said to elicit a loving response in me was interesting and helped me to understand my own "love strategies" as it were. The conclusion I came to was astonishing to me. It opened me up to explore all kinds of things inside myself and opened alot of doors for me emotionally while making my relationships better once I understood what the hell I was really doing.
And sure, all of those things can elicit a loving response in all of us, however, if you really thought about it, what is the one "strategy" you respond to every time more than the others?