thank you everyone for your very BIAS opinions, il follow up on my issues soon
What do you expect, when you post on a board where people have been through what you're putting yourself through? It sounds like you are getting suckered into joining the JW's. If she's still attending three times a week then it doesn't look like she's leaving any time soon.
There are loads of experiences of your situation, on this site. Most of them end in tragedy.
I'm sorry if that's upsetting, but it's true...
I left the JW "religion", and my wife didn't. The end result was made intolerable, by them. After slow decay, the relationship ended up destroyed. I wouldn't wish that on anyone, so please listen carefully to what people are saying here. They honestly have your best interests at heart.