The next meeting, elder asshole comes up to me, squeeses my arm hard, and says "you really need to get your time in!". I ripped my arm away, and said "I tried".
I remember one time an elder "grabbed" me. It wasn't that hard, but it was a demsonstration of power. It was like a father who grabs a young son who is misbehaving. I couldn't believe this guy had the nerve. Another elder must have seen the look on my face (though I tried to pass it off as not bothering me) and realized that I didn't like the encroachment on my personal space because he tried to apologize for the first elder later. I let it go and didn't make a big deal out of it, though it infuriated me.
To be fair, I only know of one or two elders who act like that but, if on a rare visit to a KH or convention, an elder ever touches me or grabs me in a way to try to demonstrate his power over me, he will find out real fast that if he touches me again there will be repurcussions that will result in physical pain for him.