I had been stumbled a few times and got over them, just idiots poking their noses into my buisness.
The stubling I never got over was when a 13 year old unbaptised publisher molested my 3 year old son, The elders helped a little untill we took it to the police, they then turned their backs on us.
They said they could no longer get involved because it was now a legal matter.
When my childs molester was questioned by the police an elder from the congregation went with him, his mum claimed she could not go because she was in hospital and the taxi to take her to the police station did not arrive. Load of garbage, why couldn't the elder that took the paedophile to the station pick her up?????
I told a few people in the congregation about what had happened, I then got a call from the edlers stating that if I contunued telling people then I would be in trouble fof slander.
We asked for a sheparding call a few times and it took the elders 4 weeks to get aroung to it. In the meantime they had been to visit the paedophile a number of times.
During the visit they stated that they belived paedophile was telling the truth, he denied everything of course, and if we could not handle seeing him at the meetings then we should move out of the congregation.
The paediphile no longer goes to the meetings, and now his mother is telling everyone that it's my fault that he no longer wants the truth.
Never got over that and never will.