Finding, I feel sorry for those of you who went before the elders in a kangaroo court. I'm lucky. I was summoned and I responded with a "mutual dissadmiration" letter and was summarily DF'd in absentia. Got the registered letter and sent it back telling the cong servant to use is as toilet paper. I was scared to death of Jehovah but not enough to tell the jerk what to do with worthless paper products..