Ho Hum, just another JW sex abuse case

by Dubby 32 Replies latest watchtower child-abuse

  • Zep
    Zep

    Theres some dodgy doctors/psychiatrists out there...and social workers too.What about that case in the US...was it the called the "dirty dozen" or "little rascal" case?...anway a whole town went up on child abuse charges because some social workers wouldn't take the kids word for it that they weren't abused."no" really meant "yes"...theres been a few cases like this.Then you have something called False memory syndrome, which does happen...vunerable women go to some doctor who tries to elicit thoughts from them that they were sexually abuse when young.One case i remember was on a show called "the times" down here..it had to do with 2 sisters who were Jehovah witnesses and who went to the same doctor and then both started having memories of being abused by this particular witness who was a family friend. So they confronted him and he just called them crazy...then they went to the Elders and they just said "where are your 2 witnesses"....pretty insensitive like!!!.The story didn't mention anything about False memories but I was a little suss to the fact that they were attending the same doctor and then suddenly both start having memories of being abused?.Who knows?

    Edited by - Zep on 8 August 2000 3:46:12

  • Friend
    Friend

    Pathofthorns

    Couldn't the same be said of the Catholic Church, Friend?

    To an extent the same could be said, but there are differences. For instance, the Society has not knowingly transferred pedophilic psychopathic elders away from one congregation and to another to continue in the same capacity. Sociopathic elders have transferred and have transferred with other local elders having at least some knowledge of their behavior, and those persons have harmed children. However it has not been a practice of the Society to knowingly shift such a monster from one congregation or circuit to another (one parish or dioceses to another). The Catholic Church has done such as that and it represents another, and entirely different, level of culpability.

    On another hand, the Society certainly bears a tremendous burden for wrongdoing by elders, especially when other fellow elders know of wrongdoing and nothing is done about it. In such instances the problem is not that the Society has condoned wrongdoing but rather that it has failed to institute sufficient safeguards, reasonable and foreseeable safeguards.

    A religion being led by God shouldn't need to gain a "greater and better understanding.. of the morally correct thing to do." It makes a mockery of the perfect direction and spirit of God.

    That is a perfect refutation of a straw man. The Society has never pretended to offer perfect direction in everything, furthermore even first century Christians could not be said to have offered perfect direction in everything. As represented in the Bible, those who were led by God made plenty of mistakes, and sometimes it cost lives. Of course, that does not excuse any wrong or sinful action it is just a reality. That Jehovah’s Witnesses grow in their understanding of social disorders similar to other communities is nothing to be ashamed of or to criticize; furthermore such a reality is similar to the first Christian community.

    Of course [the Society is vigorously and relentlessly pursuing reports of child abuse] because it has become fashionable to take such a strong stance and its much better for public relations.

    Though the Society’s action in this matter does provide better insulation from liability, better image and public relations, to pretend that those are the primary reasons for those actions is meaningless unless you have evidence to back the claim. Do you? From what I can tell the Society responded to the danger of the issue more so than because of those other effects. Have you forgotten that Jehovah’s Witnesses have for decades been disfellowshipping persons given to pedophilia and other immoral acts? The predisposition against such perverts has been there all the time. The problem discussed here has been more along the lines of how things were handled and why rather than whether the crime was finally realized and loathed for what it is and with a strong desire to protect others from it.

    All of these cover-ups by representatives of the Society have gone with no formal acknowledgement or apology. The same goes for deaths due to bogus doctrine on blood, blood fractions, organ transplants and vaccinations. Abuse of raped women who were disfellowshipped for fornication because they failed to scream because they were so paralyzed with fear.

    In the real world, heads roll, people are fired, people resign, people are sued, people are put in jail. I think its time the people making all the rules started taking responsibility for their actions.

    Regarding our subject, actually there have been some private apologies from representatives of the Society, many of them. The blood fiasco is another subject entirely and must be addressed. Frankly, it is easy to see how the Society initially adopted the view it did regarding blood transfusion. Nevertheless, by now the Society should have corrected what has become realized as a seriously flawed teaching, one that probably represents the most tangible threat to its existence.

    Friend

    Edited by - Friend on 8 August 2000 9:17:4

  • RedhorseWoman
    RedhorseWoman

    The WTBTS is neither better nor worse than any other religious group.

    The fault I see with the Society is the attempt to insinuate that while Christendom has these various "problems", the "true church" is without blemish. The Society has never, in my recollection, acknowledged that they are no different than any other group....the fault is always in the individual.

  • Zep
    Zep
    Frankly, it is easy to see how the Society initially adopted the view it did regarding blood transfusion

    A Fear of the new, a fear of the world, a sense of paranoia about everything...that Satan is everywhere.And an obessessive desire to prove to themselves and others that they are unique and Gods chosen by being overly scrupulous in regard to scripture, like the Pharisee's...Like those snake handlers in the south!.Religious people are just plain crazy sometimes.

    Nevertheless, by now the Society should have corrected what has become realized as a seriously flawed teaching, one that probably represents the most tangible threat to its existence.

    They're in a bit of a catch 22 arn't they friend?.How do they revoke the blood policy and exlain their back down to all those who have lost loved ones?.How do they revoke the blood policy and not loose members, people will loose faith in them when/if they do it for sure.Then again, how do they hold onto the policy with the Blood reform movement getting bigger and bigger, and more and more people seeing it for what it is...A crock.
    The blood policy is probably the one thing the wider community moreorless understands about JW teaching...its turns them off JW's right away.Want to refute JW's to a layman...just tell him about the blood policy, its a sure winner 99.9% of the time.

    Edited by - Zep on 8 August 2000 22:15:58

  • Pathofthorns
    Pathofthorns

    I agree with you Zep. It is the inconsistencies with the blood policy that makes the average JW scratch his head and realize something is not right.

    Plus you can talk about it carefully without worrying about "apostacy". Simply by explaining our present position is enough to wake many up to the fact that what they thought was simply "abstaining from blood" is not really the case at all.

    As was mentioned, this whole blood thing is a damned if you do, damned if you don't problem as far as change is concerned.

    I still can't figure out why new blood cards with wording to reflect the new changes haven't been issued, as well as detailed meetings in the halls explaining of the change to inform the members.

    Path

  • Friend
    Friend

    Path, Zep,

    It looks like we are in complete agreement on the problem facing the Society on this issue of blood. Like I said, that one issue probably represents the most tangible threat to the Society’s existence. Their policy will change on day, and hell will be paid. Unfortunately many have already paid the price of hell, including children.

    There is another issue in the making, but it does not pack the punch of this blood issue.

    Friend

  • Zep
    Zep
    I still can't figure out why new blood cards with wording to reflect the new changes haven't been issued, as well as detailed meetings in the halls explaining of the change to inform the members.

    Path, thats easy...they know they have to change but they dont want to suffer the consequences of that change.They want to change but at the same time keep the members in the dark in relation to that change.Its like the "this generation", they changed that...but if you read the change in the WT, its not very clear.Actually I have a friend still being taught the OLD light concerning the generation thing and i was told this is not uncommon at all...The society has been very wishy washy about informing people.What about those Hemophiliacs in the 70's...the society made some changes concering some product but from memory didn't inform the members properly till 3 years later...its a joke, totally dishonest.

  • RedhorseWoman
    RedhorseWoman

    It's obvious that change is coming as far as the blood issue is concerned.

    My thought is that they will just keep changing small portions of the rules, which most JW's will continually accept without question, until one day it will be understood that only actual consumption of blood (eating) is considered sinful.

    By that time, the gradual shift will have been totally assimilated by the devout Witness, and they will be totally stymied if someone were to bring up the previous ban on blood transfusions. As has been the case with so many other issues, they will simply state that it was always a conscience matter and that some JW's just took too extreme a stance on the matter....the Society NEVER prohibited blood transfusions....it was just that individuals didn't understand the issue properly.

    Just as the Society NEVER declared that organ transplants were cannibalism and should never be considered....oh, no, that was just individuals misinterpreting things.

    They have done this in the past, and I'm sure they will try to pull it off again with the blood issue.

  • Xandit
    Xandit

    OK Friend I'll bite. What's the other issue?

  • Friend
    Friend

    Xandit

    Bite? LOL. I didn't plant the sentence as bait.

    The other issue is the subject of this thread. The Society faces a huge problem from past preventable child abuse.

    Over the years the Society has known of horrid acts of child abuse committed within the ranks of Jehovah's Witnesses. Unlike other communities, Jehovah's Witnesses have been taught to cover over horrible and dangerous transgressions to the point of being over protective of someone who has sown plenty of bad seed. In most societies if a sociopath abused children then community leaders would expose them to the elements, so to speak, to fully reap the rich rewards of their planting. To this day that tendency-a needed and expected tendency-is still not the norm among Jehovah's Witnesses. This very moment there are ongoing cases of terrible crimes against JW children by adult JWs that are still not reported to authorities. Of course, for the past few years the Society has directed local elders to follow local statutes in the matter regardless of any perceived cost in reputation. However, prior to that the Society often took the view that ecclesiastical privilege carried a blanket protection to the point that elders had no responsibility whatsoever beyond a child's immediate safety, reporting to a child's parent or dealing congregationally with an offender. That former direction led to a problem where pedophiles could find a sort of haven among us, Jehovah's Witnesses. The main problem facing the Society is its past tendency to hush up these sorts of things to the point of putting children at risk.

    Primarily the issue above puts the Society at financial risk. However, between the Society improving its cash flow from the early nineties and their very lucrative return on investments, the Society is cash rich so that they could probably whether the storm of civil litigation and subsequent money penalties in the form of awards.

    The blood issue is entirely different. Changing that particular teaching too dramatically would not necessarily put the Society into danger of civil litigation, but it would put them in danger of massive defection. An organization like the Society needs member support. Financial support from membership is the proverbial water well. If that well dries up then the money completely dries up along with social support. That is why the blood issue represents a greater threat and the Society will fight it hard. That is why it becomes critical that JWs who feel the teaching should be revised should share that view with the Society. If the Society is reassured that its members will support significant change then there is already scriptural explanation ready to enact them.

    Friend

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