Tips For Lurkers To Get Out

by minimus 36 Replies latest jw friends

  • seattleniceguy
    seattleniceguy

    Dave,
    Wonderful writing. I like your mind. Razor-sharp logic. Any lurkers here do well to consider your posts carefully.

    Dear lurkers,This overlaps with Dave's post, but as an extremely abbreviated check, consider this comparison:

    Watchtower....

    1. Does not tolerate disagreement.
    2. Accuses detractors without considering their actual arguments.
    3. Does not encourage reading sources critical of its opinions.

    By contrast, XJWs....

    1. Allow disagreement. Only you can decide how to interpret any given set of facts.
    2. Discuss the arguments and counter-arguments for any idea at considerable length.
    3. Encourage reading any source you like, so as to form a complete opinion.

    Which group is afraid of information? Which group fosters individual growth and personal responsibility? Which group's methods allow a person to come to a more informed opinion? If these two sides were discussing a non-religious issue, whose side would you be more attracted to? Which side would you be wary of? Be honest with yourself.

    SNG

  • Blueblades
    Blueblades

    SNG! Excellant contrast! Good descriptive analysis of what is a mind controlled society vs.open-mindedness,free thinkers not allowed in the society.Free-thinkers welcome to the board,where all your doubts and questions are addressed here.

    Blueblades

  • minimus
    minimus

    SNG----Thank you for capsulizing these important thought-provoking comparisons.

  • simplesally
    simplesally

    • Start building a non JW support system. Get friends at work so you don't end up alone and going back because you have no life. .
    • Find other activities you enjoy: start doing things, going places, be busy.
    • Read CofC
  • minimus
    minimus

    SimplySally----That's exactly what I did.

  • ESTEE
    ESTEE

    Just do it! ... You'll be glad you did ... and you'll get to live the real life!!!

    'Cuz nuthin happened in 1914 ... nuthin' happened in 1919 ... nuthin' happened in 1935 ... nuthin' happened in 1975 ... nuthin' happened in 2000 ... let's face it ... that generation is lo-o-o-o-ong gone! And the next one is gone too!

    REALITY CHECK!!!

    ESTEE

  • PopeOfEruke
    PopeOfEruke

    In the same way that an alcoholic can never be cured until he or she admits to themselves that they are alcoholics, so a JW can never start to be free until they first admit that they are alcoholics too. After that its easy..........

    Pope

    PS Mooning the CO during the public talk would be another good way to get out...

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