I`m sorry but I cant take this post seriously !
You are both in your early twenty`s ? And your carrying on like 12 year old`s ?
You say you don`t believe the religion so why are you still under their control ?
If your b.f. is then dump him he`s not a man.
If your still living at home move out and live your own life ,free to do whatever you want ,however the key word here is FREE.
I can`t believe you have been here 6 months claim to be an atheist /agnostic and you post this crap at your age.?
Sometimes being blunt is the only cure.