Selling Ice to an Eskimo

by Jang 27 Replies latest jw friends

  • Jang
    Jang

    Ever wondered how you were talked into buying something you didn't want?

    Ever wondered how you got talked into the WTS

    The best sales training is that we received at Theocratic Ministry School ..... and we didn't know it!

    SEQUENTIAL REQUESTS

    A stranger approaches you at the shopping mall one day and politely asks if she can have a minute of your time. You stop
    and say, "Yes."

    The stranger goes on to describe the importance of the local blood bank to the safety and well-being of your community.
    (You nod your head in polite agreement, but you know there's a gimmick.) Then the stranger gets to the point:

    "Would you be willing to be a blood bank volunteer? You'd have to give ten hours a week for the next year and solicit blood
    donations from the people of our community by contacting them over the phone or face-to-face. Will you give us your time?"

    You think to yourself, "Ten hours a week? For a year?! That's crazy. Volunteering is important, yes, but no one should have
    to give up that kind of time!"

    And so you politely tell the stranger, "No."

    The stranger looks a little disappointed and says:

    "Well, if you can't give your time, could you at least give a unit of blood right now? We have a station set up right down this
    hall."

    Now this is a more reasonable request. And even though you've never given blood before you find yourself walking down
    that hallway with this stranger . . .

    Something happened here.

    A stranger stops a person. The stranger makes an extreme request. The person says, "No thanks." The stranger makes a
    second less extreme request. The person says, "I'll do it."

    Amazing as it may sound, this persuasive strategy is a reliable means of influencing people. It is also effective at getting
    behavior change which can be the toughest kind of change to get. It does not work in every situation and it is very important
    to know its limitations, but the sequential requests strategy is simple to implement and effective in outcome.

    HOW SEQUENTIAL REQUESTS ARE DONE

    From our example, you can see that this tactic has two steps. The first step is a set up. The first request is not the true target.
    Rather it is used to get the receiver in the right frame of mind. The second step is the real target. It is the action the requester
    really wants you to perform.

    Now, if you think about it, you can do this Two Step dance two different ways. The first way is called the door-in-the-face
    or DITF for short. The second way is called the foot-in-the-door or FITD. Both dances require two steps. Both do a set up
    on the first step. Both have the real target on the second step. The difference is how step one hits the receiver.

    Our example illustrated the first tactic, the door-in-the-face. Here, the first request was aimed solely at getting the receiver to
    say no very quickly. The second, less extreme request then followed and is more likely to be accepted.

    The other tactic, foot-in-the-door, pushes the first request in the opposite direction. Instead of starting off with an extreme
    request, FITD starts with a little request that almost no one would refuse. After getting a "Yes!" response to this little request,
    the receiver is hit with the second, larger request.

    See if you understand the FITD. Take our blood donation example. Our real target is to get people to give a unit of blood
    right now. To do the FITD, the first request has to be small and acceptable. Then, after we get affirmative action at step one,
    we hit them with step two, give blood. Think of a smaller request we could make of a person that would elicit a "Yes"
    response before we ask for the blood donation.

    We could . . .

    . . . ask the person if she would sign this petition here that offers public support for the local blood bank.

    That would work. It is a small request. Takes no time to sign a petition. It is for a worthy cause; everybody supports it.
    Almost everyone would sign that petition, wouldn't they?

    Then as soon as the ink dries on the signature, the requester follows up with, "Well since you obviously support the blood
    bank and are willing to say so on this public petition, maybe you'd like to show a little more support and give a unit of blood
    right now. We have a station set up . . ."

    Sequential requests are very simple to do. Here is a little diagram of their action.

    First Step
    Second Step
    DITF
    get No! (large request)
    get Yes! (real request)
    FITD
    get Yes! (small request)
    get Yes! (real request)

    If you have been carefully following along, you realize that both versions of the Two Step can lead to the same target. With
    the DITF we get to the target by starting out with a request that is extreme. With the FITD we get to the same target by
    starting out with a request that is small.

    THE EFFECTIVENESS OF THE TWO STEP

    You might be wondering just how effective the Two Step is. Over the past twenty-five years many studies of the Two Step
    have been completed. If you read all of them and draw conclusions, here's what we know about effectiveness.

    Imagine that you make only the second request to a group of people (would you give a unit of blood right now?). Let's say
    for the sake of argument that 30% of the group would volunteer right on the spot if you just ask them. The question becomes,
    how many more volunteers could we have gotten if we had used a Two Step?

    The research is in strong agreement that on average you would increase your volunteer rate about 10%. Thus in our running
    example, a Two Step would produce a total of 40% volunteers versus the simple request. If the simple request had gotten,
    say, 60% volunteers, the Two Step would have produced a 70% rate.

    A ten percent improvement may not sound like much, but consider this. The requester has only to say a couple of extra
    sentences to get that 10%. Merely through a careful and thoughtful consideration of how to get a "No!" or a "Yes! response
    at step one can get on average 10% more impact.

    But, there are some important limitations to the Two Step. Notice that it is a 10% improvement, on average. There are
    certain conditions that can boost the improvement even higher or drive it considerably lower. Let's look a bit closer.

    LIMITATIONS TO THE TWO STEP

    There are several important limiting conditions on the impact of the Two Step. Some conditions apply only to DITF and
    others apply only to FITD. First, we will examine the DITF.

    Limitations on DITF. Two major limitations apply to DITF. First, the requests appear to work best if they are prosocial
    rather than selfish. Second, the requests work best if there is no delay between them.

    The research seems to indicate that selfish appeals do not work well with the DITF. If the receiver is asked to do something
    that would provide a selfish benefit, there is limited influence. By contrast, if the request is done for more altruistic,
    it's-a-good-thing-for-everybody, reasons, the tactic is more effective.

    This is great news for teachers if you think about it. We want students to change their attitudes, beliefs, or behaviors about a
    wide range of issues, events, objects, etc. Most of these things are prosocial in nature. We want our students to like reading
    or mathematics, enjoy school and learning, trust their friends and classmates. All these revolve around prosocial themes and
    therefore are amenable to a tactic like DITF.

    The second limitation is somewhat obvious. There should be no delay between the two requests. If the requester waits for a
    week, a day, even a few minutes, DITF will not work.

    We know that on average DITF produces about a 10% improvement in influence compared to a simple request. What
    happens if the above limitations are followed? If DITF is used without delay between requests on a prosocial issue, the tactic
    produces a larger improvement, about 20% on average.

    Limitations on the FITD. There are two major limitations on FITD. First, FITD works best with prosocial requests just like
    DITF. Second, FITD works best when there are no extra incentives offered for performing the requests.

    We have already discussed the importance of prosocial requests versus selfish requests in the DITF section. The Two Step
    appears to work best when the receiver is not acting for selfish gain. And, as noted before, this prosocial factor is good news
    for teachers. Since so many of the things we want our students to prefer or do revolve around prosocial themes.

    The second limitation on FITD concerns incentives. If the receiver is offered an incentive for performing any request (the first
    or the second), then FITD will not work. Thus, when people are promised rewards (money, gifts, or anything that is valuable
    to them), they will not be influenced.

    This makes common sense. We already know that the Two Step works with prosocial requests. When people are offered
    gifts or money to "help" others, the reason is transparent. They are doing it solely for the reward.

    You will recall that on average the FITD produces about a 10% improvement in influence over the simple request rate. Now
    we know that there are two limiting factors on the FITD. What happens to the success rate if these factors are kept in mind?
    If there is a request on a prosocial topic for which the receiver has no incentive to perform, the influence rate will improve to
    about 20%.

    WHY DOES THE TWO STEP WORK?

    Surprisingly there is not widespread agreement on why either the DITF or the FITD work. Some explanations have received
    partial support. But at present much more theoretical work needs to be done. Here is the best current thinking.

    DITF Explanation. The strongest explanation of DITF is called, "reciprocal concessions." It simply means this: I give a little,
    you give a little. As the requester, I make an "offer." As the receiver, you counter and say, "No!" I come back with another
    offer, this time a smaller one. I have made a concession, right? I am no longer asking for that big thing, but rather this little
    thing. In the rules of polite society, you should respond with a concession of your own. In this case you should accept my
    lower offer. I give a little, you give a little.

    A second explanation of the DITF that has been given is called, "perceptual contrast." Unfortunately, tests of this theory have
    failed. Perceptual contrast holds that the first request defines a standard of comparison. When the second request comes
    along, it seems much smaller compared to the first one. For example, imagine if you had to judge the "heaviness" of a 20
    pound weight. If you first lifted a 50 pound weight, then the 20 pound weight, those 20 pounds wouldn't feel so heavy, right?
    There is an intuitive appeal to the perceptual contrast explanation, but the data strongly disconfirm it.

    Clearly more theoretical work needs to be done with DITF. We know that it works, but we are not sure why. The reciprocal
    concessions explanation has good appeal. It demonstrates that the receiver is not a helpless pawn, but rather is part of a
    communication interaction commonly called negotiation. The DITF, however, is a negotiation that strongly favors the
    requester.

    FITD Explanation. The preferred explanation of FITD is self perception theory. Since this theory is covered in detail in
    another chapter, we will just review it here. This theory says that we learn about our internal states (attitudes, beliefs,
    preferences, etc.) by observing our own behavior. If we observe ourselves doing some thing (signing a petition in support of
    the local blood bank), then we reason that we must like the thing. Do you see the application of this to FITD? Think about it.

    With FITD the first step is to get a "Yes!" response to a small request. According to self perception theory, what happens
    here? Right, the person observes his behavior. "Ahhh, here I am signing this petition. If I'm doing this, it must mean that I have
    a favorable opinion about it."

    Now, the second step comes along, right in line with the first one, and what happens? The person knows he should accept
    the second request because he is "that" kind of person. He has already seen himself do other behaviors in support of it. He
    obviously supports that kind of thing, he is that kind of person. And he complies with the second request.

    Another interesting explanation comes out of consistency theory. Again, this theory is covered in another chapter, so we only
    need a review. The basic principle of this theory is that people need to maintain psychological consistency in their thoughts,
    actions, and feelings. Inconsistency is painful and causes us to restore a sense of balance.

    FITD fits in nicely with consistency theory. Step one gets the receivers to take a stand. "Yes! I'll sign that petition." Step two
    comes along and literally forces them to maintain consistency. "Well, sir, since you've signed this petition in support of the
    local blood bank, I'm sure you the kind of person who also wants to give blood and since we have station set up just down
    the hallway . . ." The receiver is in a difficult psychological position. To say, "No!" to the second request would demonstrate
    an obvious inconsistency. The pressure to maintain consistency, therefore, leads to compliance.

    At present there is no reason to prefer self perception theory over consistency theory or vice versa. It is an interesting area of
    research and one that will occupy the time and effort of persuasion scientists.

    DOING THE INSTRUCTIONAL TWO STEP

    Application of the Two Step is simple and straightforward, but it does require careful advance planning. You must clearly
    define your target request, then figure out how to get either the desired "No!" or "Yes!" response to the first request. If you
    do not plan correctly, you will be doing the Two Step by yourself.

    Using DITF. A classic example of the DITF concerns assignments and deadlines. A teacher announces several weeks in
    advance that a major test will be given on October 5. The teacher, however, deliberately schedules more work during the
    time before the test than can be reasonably completed. Thus, just a few days before the major test, it is obvious to every
    student that they are going to have a killer work load in the next few days to be ready for the test. So what happens?

    The kids complain. It's too much work. We can't do all this. There's not enough time. IT'S NOT FAIR!!!

    In essence they are saying, "No!" to the first request. So what happens next?

    The teacher makes a concession.

    "Okay, if I give you an extra week will you study and work hard and do well on the test?"

    According to the reciprocal concessions explanation, we know what should happen. You made a concession, now the
    students should make a concession.

    Here's another example: "I need volunteers to come to class every Saturday morning for a month to help me set up bulletin
    boards. Who'll volunteer to help?"

    Stunned silence greets the teacher. Faces look down on the floor, avoiding eye contact with the teacher.

    "Okay, then, if you can't help me every Saturday for a month, how many of you will volunteer to stay after school for thirty
    minutes once this semester to help out?"

    Using FITD. Parental involvement in student learning is critical. The more support and effort parents give to their child's
    education, the higher the achievement for the child. Some parents, however, need to show a little more support than they do.
    It may not be reasonable to hit parents with a long list of activities they should be doing for their kid and expect them to
    follow all the items on the list. You need to bring them along slowly, one step at a time.

    Get your foot in the door with a phone call.

    "Hi, Mrs. Jones? This is Mrs. Watson, your son's teacher. Oh, no, he's not in trouble. I just need a little help from you. We
    send some work home with all the students every Tuesday and Thursday and I'm asking my parents if they would just put a
    little checkmark on the homework to show that the children are doing these projects at home. On Tuesday and Thursday,
    your Jimmy will bring home an assignment and all you or Mr. Jones need to do is just put your initials on the front or some
    other little mark. It would really help us a lot. Will you do this?"

    Assuming you get the, "Yes!" response (and if you don't you have definitely learned a lot about the Joneses), you have your
    foot in the door. What do you do next?

    That's right. The next time you see or speak with the Joneses, you remind them about their helpfulness, then bump them up to
    the next level.

    ". . . and thank-you for doing those little checkmarks. I know it seems minor, but it does help. Tell me, when you look over
    the homework before you initial it, have you noticed if Jimmy seems to do better on some projects than others? I mean does
    he seem to need some help with spelling or sounding things out? He does? Well, of course, you could help him a little bit if
    you think he needs it . . ."

    The FITD can be a continuing chain that links a series of desired behaviors together. You start with actions that almost
    anyone will do, then build on them. Make sure they appear consistent with each other. Make sure the receivers "see"
    themselves performing the action.

    A HEALTH TWOSTEP

    One of my former master's students did a very interesting application of FITD in a health setting. Danielle wanted to influence
    more women to schedule breast cancer screening tests (mammograms). And she wanted to do this in an applied setting. So
    she got the cooperation of the Mon County Public Health Department and did her experiment during a health fair held at the
    Morgantown Mall.

    The Public Health Department had a booth at the fair where they gave free vision tests to anyone who wanted one. While
    women were standing in line, some were randomly selected and then approached by Danielle who did a FITD tactic. She
    would asked selected women, "Would you be interested in learning more about the breast self-exam procedure?" As she
    said this, she held out a "shower head" card that displayed series of pen and ink drawings showing how a woman should do a
    self-exam. Every woman took the card, stuck it in her purse, then continued in line. Women in the control group were not
    approached. After the vision test all women (FITD and control) were told about the services offered by the Public Health
    clinic and were asked the key question: "Would you like to schedule a mammogram right now?"

    In the control group approximately 25% of the women agreed to the request and scheduled an exam. Among the FITD
    women 41% agreed. Interestingly enough, this effect size difference is just about what meta-analytic research predicts it
    should be.

    So to significantly increase this important health action, all Danielle had to do was ask one little question and get women to
    take a free brochure. A very small price to pay for the extra benefits the two step provides.

    CONCLUSION

    Doing the Two Step requires advance planning. You must know where you are headed (the second request, the real target).
    You must know how you will get there (start high or start low?) It is also clear that you consider the limiting factors. Your
    target request must have some prosocial connection; selfish appeals will not benefit from the Two Step. If you are using
    DITF, there can be no delay between requests. If you are using FITD, there can be no incentives for performance. If you
    implement the Two Step properly, however, you know you can improve your effectiveness by 20%.

    REFERENCES AND RECOMMENDED READINGS

    Cantril, J., & Seibold, D. (1986). The perceptual contrast explanation of sequential request strategy effectiveness. Human
    Communication Research, 13, 253-267.

    Cialdini, R., Vincent, J., Lewis, S., Catalan, J., Wheeler, D., & Darby, B. (1975). Reciprocal concessions procedure for
    inducing compliance: The door-in-the-face technique. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 31, 206-215.

    Dillard, J. (1990). Self-inference and the foot-in-the-door technique: Quantity of behavior and attitudinal mediation. Human
    Communication Research, 16, 422-447.

    Dillard, J. (1991). The current status of research on sequential-request compliance techniques. Personality and Social
    Psychology Bulletin, 17, 282-288.

    Dillard, J., Hunter, J., & Burgoon, M. (1984). Sequential request persuasive strategies: Meta-analysis of foot-in-the-door
    and door-in-the-face. Human Communication Research, 10, 461-488.

    Dolin, D., & Booth-Butterfield, S. (1994). Foot-in-the-door and cancer prevention. Health Communication, 7, 55-66.

    Freedman, J., & Fraser, S. (1966). Compliance without pressure: The foot-in-the-door technique. Journal of Personality and
    Social Psychology, 4, 195-202.

    JanG

  • GinnyTosken
    GinnyTosken

    JanG,

    I understand that you consider information such as this vital to the healing of JWs and ex-JWs, but isn't it a bit much to spam the board with this, 6 new threads at a time, especially when you have a website?

    I was annoyed recently when Focus spammed the board, but said nothing. I am annoyed again this morning. To me it is the online equivalent of someone who elbows his way to the front of a room, yelling, "Hey, everybody! Listen to me! Listen to me! What I've got to say is so much more important than what anybody else has to say!" Other equally informative and interesting posts are shoved en masse down the board, and we must wait for the new clump of posts to disperse.

    May I suggest one cult-related post per day with links to your website? I personally would be more inclined to read your posts if presented that way. As is, I usually don't read them at all because of my annoyance.

    Ginny

  • Jang
    Jang

    Ginny, I will not be around for the next few days as far as doing as you suggest. Hence, I got these up while I could.

    If people don't want to read them they don't have to. You didn't have to open the message or any of the others if you felt this way.

    In addition, you can always save the message ot your own disk and read it later at your pleasure.

    Maybe i might get a friend of mine to post the messages in future that way and then those of you who have this opinion of me that I am yelling 'listen to me" might realise that I could care less about who gets the credit for the articles beign available, and more interested in making it available when I have time to post them.

    As for putting them all up on my website.... I guess you will pay for the extra secure webspace for me

    Feeling cheezed off to the max today ...... on my feet!

    JanG

  • Seeker
    Seeker

    What a remarkable response!

    "I will not be around for the next few days as far as doing as you suggest. Hence, I got these up while I could."

    You mean you won't be able to post when you get back?

    "If people don't want to read them they don't have to. You didn't have to open the message or any of the others if you felt this way."

    Many of us do skip messages from certain posters, but what Ginny was saying is that en masse posting makes other topics disappear off the front page unnecessarily. You didn't address that point, and it was Ginny's main point.

    "Maybe i might get a friend of mine to post the messages in future that way and then those of you who have this opinion of me that I am yelling 'listen to me" might realise that I could care less about who gets the credit for the articles beign available, and more interested in making it available when I have time to post them."

    This isn't about you, but about the way you were posting. Having friends spam the board on your behalf results in the same problem.

    "As for putting them all up on my website.... I guess you will pay for the extra secure webspace for me"

    So your solution is to make this board take up the storage instead?! I guess they will pay for the extra secure webspace for you.

  • Mulan
    Mulan

    Hi Jan, For the most part, I really enjoy your posts, but if anyone posts something as long as that one, I quit reading. It's not that I have a short attention span, because I don't. It's just that I don't have time to read the long ones like that. I get on here, and cruise around reading posts by my favorites, and hopefully they will be short and to the point. A few paragraphs is fine, but that one was toooooo long.
    Mulan

  • larc
    larc

    Jang,

    I have read about these two techniques in a standard text. Howver, your write up provides more detail, and is therefore more understandable than what I had read before. I have one question. Did you write this or is it from a book? The reason I ask is that your post refers to something in another chapter.

    From your posts, it is clear that you have a great deal of interest in the findings of Social Psych. There are one or two others who have posted on these findings as well, but I can't remember who it was. So far, no one has commented on the relevance of Irving Janis' work on Groupthink. I have a write up on this that I prepared. Unfortunately, it is buried somewhere in one of many card board boxes. If I find it soon, I will copy it onto a new thread.

  • GinnyTosken
    GinnyTosken

    JanG,

    On the "front page" of Jehovahs-Witness.com, there are spaces for 20 articles. When I logged in this morning, 6 of your articles were there:

    May 24, 2001 7:08:31 AM
    Selling Ice to an Eskimo

    May 24, 2001 6:43:57 AM
    Emotional Abuse -what it does to children..!!!!!!

    May 24, 2001 6:35:01 AM
    Symptoms of Unhealthy Authority and Dependance [sic]

    May 24, 2001 6:25:30 AM
    ABUSE!!

    May 24, 2001 6:18:35 AM
    Influence: How people are sold on anything.

    May 24, 2001 5:54:50 AM
    Who is the Devil?

    The topic of how people are influenced and drawn into cults is one that interests me, too. But six posts on any topic, especially clumped together like this on one day, is a bit much. For any person to take up over 25% of the "front page" is rude, in my opinion.

    In no way do I mean this as a personal attack. The information you share is good, and I'm sure you've helped many people. I just believe in the maxim, "Less is more." I wish you'd share one article at a time, let a lively discussion develop around it, and then post another as that one dies out. That, to me, would be ideal. As it is, when I see a string of JanG posts, I feel bombarded and preached at, especially when a topic has 6 exclamation points in the title.

    As I said before, I like Jehovahs-witnesses.com because it is self-moderating. I don't see Simon making a three-post-per-day rule such as we once had on H2O. I figured I'd speak up and let you know how I feel about this. I wish I'd spoken up when Focus did it, too. If I'm the only one who is annoyed, I can suffer in silence.

    Ginny

  • Tina
    Tina

    Hi Ginny,
    No you're not the only one annoyed,believe me,hugs,Tina

    Carl Sagan on balancing openness to new ideas with skeptical scrutiny...."if you are open to the point of gullibility and have not an ounce of skeptical sense,you cannot distinguish useful ideas from worthless ones."

  • Seeker
    Seeker

    You are not the only one who felt annoyed at this spamming of the board. I noticed, and disliked, Focus doing it as well.

    I'm in the Less is More camp too. Jan's article, though important and interesting, could have been much shorter. I got the point in the first few paragraphs and the rest of it was just more of the same over and over again. Much better would be to post the first few paragraphs, and then post a link to where the article was found. That way those of us who want to read more can do so, and this board doesn't get flooded with extra storage needs.

  • LDH
    LDH

    As long as we're going to make suggestions about posting, I have one of my own.

    Some points here about spamming may be valid--but could they be addressed in a different, non-embarrassing manner?

    I did notice JanG's email addy is unblocked--perhaps a brief note to her inbox would've been a better idea.

    Sometimes I post two topics on one day, but I will re-think and perhaps post just one.

    Lisa

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