Thunder called my sister today and she said the Doctor said it would be as little as 48 hours before my Mom passed away. I am perplexed as to why they were giving her pain medication when she had no brain waves.
I do have to say that my two dysfunctional siblings are always able to hurt me even when I am not there. The chaplain had come in and said Mom wasn't passing on because there were "unresolved matters". He asked why I wasn't there and Shirley (my kinda normal sis that I love) says "this jut isn't Sheila." He asked the other two if there were unresolved problems the monsters had the gall to say "oh we have forgiven Sheila" FORGIVEN ME WTF like for what for not being a doormat anymore?????? Shirley said she sputterd "you forgive SHEILA." which is Shirleys way of standing up for me as spinless as it may be.
So my brother KNEW she called but guess who calls I was crying and answered the phone(I have a habit of doing that) and it was my dysfunctional tragedy vampire brother. He say Mom died and I said while getting pretty upset "I know Shirley told us" Thunder came running in and hung up on him.
So instead of being at peace knowing my Mom is at peace I am hurt and furious.
Yesterday was her Birthday she was 72