I suppose what confuses me is not so much how people choose to conduct their intimate lives, but the need to share the details of that intimacy. If a person decides to seek more than one partner and it does no harm to any party, so be it. Maybe it's my nature, but my private life is just that, PRIVATE. My moral compass does not include sharing details about romantic trysts, semi-nude pictures, positions, or other personal matters with the public at large. All of my lovers (not a huge throng, I assure you, Gentle Reader), at least know that the chronicle of our interludes will not end up on an internet discussion board...or any other place for that matter.
COMF, I really admire your humor, your quick wit, your kindness, and your intelligence. But it comes down to:. I just don't "get" you. I guess we have already ascertained that fact, huh? Some irony that I know way more about your love-life than I do about my best friend's. Did someone question you so that you felt compelled to post this? Was it in response to something you yourself revealed, and if so, why did you reveal it?
Wishing you well with whatever path you choose,