Need advise. I was in a relation with a JW girl for almost three years(Im am not JW) and we are so inlove with each other until someone saw us from her congregation and she was disfellowed and that where the oddness happened. Her family and friends are not talking to her anymore, she wants me to stop seeing and talking to her anymore not until i became a baptized JW. 2 mos later im attending JW congregation twice a week and doing bible study. I left my live in partner for 18yrs for her and my kids. It just felt unfair. I gave up everything and she gave up nothing. Im so cnfused on whats happening.