Though many things in the Bible do not make sense to me,
there is something in it that makes my life easy.
This is how I arrived at it. Bible defines God as the servant of His children because He makes provisions for the enjoyment of life in abundance (Mathew 5:44-47) and ‘renews’ them if need arises (Mathew 19:28) with no intervention whatsoever in between which means He is not interested in gratitude/worship from His children. Yet history shows that people forget Him in happiness and remember Him only in distress which means He is not given love (though He is the giver of love), and He is not bothered of it. In other words, He is the symbol of acceptance rather than expectation.
This is my experience:
In acceptance, I make life (mine and of others) a heaven.
In expectation, I make life (mine and of others) a hell.