I got married while I was a JW and have been married for 16 years. The last 10 years have been totally loveless, and we have merely existed under the same roof, nothing more. Now that I've disassociated myself we have nothing in common at all. The only thing we ever really had in common was the cult, but now all we do is argue about it. I suspect my wife is already considering divorce too, but is waiting for my mother to pass away, so that she can get half of my inheiritance. She can legally do this if I receive it while we are still married. My mother doesn't have long to live, as she's 81 now and has cancer.
I don't know anyone who has gone through a divorce, so any advice on this would be appreciated.