Paranoid why the coordinator's wife is soft shunning me
I'm so sorry you have to deal with this Watchtard Nazi - if you're mentally out too bad you can't have some fun with it and ask her friends and all the other members (I doubt she has any friends) what med she's on (that isn't working) or needs to be on! No, that wouldn't be nice and there's enough evil people there -- obviously!
Don't worry about it -- she's not worth your time. She's just brainwashed and lock stepping along to her cult leaders' orders so be empathetic and feel very sorry for the pathetic creature. It's just difficult when you're a decent human being and there's a snake in your area - a JW sociopathic one!
I don't know you nor the COBE & his missus, but could it be that he has said something "nice" about you? Something like, "Sister Crater I'm fantasizing about humping you in that hot short dress you're wearing tonight". (Although he really just said, "You look nice tonight, Sister Crater.)
The (older, dumpy) wife of another Elder shunned my (hot) wife because she spoke too often to him at the KHall and he "gives too much attention to Sister Doc". Remember, most JWs imagine that everyone is about 3 seconds away from fornicating with anyone/everyone else. (Or, it could have been the fact that Sister Dumpy did some "mattress shopping" in prior years before getting so "dumpy" and things everyone behaves like her.)
This happened to my wife. She is very direct, so she asked the offender about it. At first she denied it. After a while, with tears in her eyes, the offender admitted to it. She gave some bs excuse. I think they went out in field service last week. Go figure.
"PARANOID why the coordinators wife is soft shunning me"
It's natural for us to want to be liked by people but in this case I suppose I'd ask myself why it was so important to me that I have the approval of this one person. I've done noting wrong to her and I've gone out of my way to be a friend, am I being a bit Narcissistic in thinking that her behavior is about me ? Am I being overly concerned about what she thinks of me? Do I miss having this person in my life or is my concern mostly out of an exaggerated need for the approval of others?
I would focus my thoughts on the majority of others who seem to like me rather than obsess on the one who doesn't seem to at the moment.
There are always ways to mess with these people using their own doctrines against them.
Once you realize this and use it to your advantage, the witnesses are easily outmaneuvered.