Hi, No-zombie. Your comment made a point that I may use in a future article. (I've written one already.) I'm glad that you took the time to put your thoughts into words.
The last sentence in your above comment says, "And if you are now a true atheist yourself, then what does it matter what a person does ... as all human value systems, are just unreal constructs created over time by society. In fact in times past, what Lloyd has done was totally normal."
The article I plan to write is against polygamy for Christians. Polygamy is based on a 'human value system". Christ didn't give his approval to the "construct" of polygamy for his followers. To become a Christian, a polygamist must send away his extra wives. And to become a Christian, an extra wife must leave the polygamist man. To many non-christians, polygamy has been presented as "totally normal". But for Christians, polygamy is adultery.