Olig ....... welcome by the way.
Let us know if your looking for a way out for your self or family member etc.
There are a number of ways you can get around the DF or DA rules.
First of all secure all of your media outlets, so no one can read anything about you that could raise concerns. And this includes family members. Secure everything and post nothing related to your personal conduct, nor relationships, nor any doubts you feel inclined to express. This and other password protected forums is the place to vent.. Remember that old theocratic warfare the JW's like to claim? Misdirect. Even in our discussions it's OK to keep private info private or say you live in one country but actually live in another. The same with any personal details...misdirect.
Say nothing about your doubts in front of any Elder and never in front of two Elders or any two JW's.
If you want to fade just stop attending meetings..
If questioned about your lack of attendance and lack of participation etc. Say that you are praying to Jehovah to work out some personal issue's and don't feel ready to talk about it. Invoking Jehovah shuts down a mere Elder.
Or you can get open and honest and say that the JW pedophile issue has really stumbled you. You are anxious that the Society cleans up this problem.
It is easy to get that history on line about the JW pedophile problem from non apostate sites, the facts are available and there are a number of suggestions on how to minimize this problem.
Most Elders and JW members really don't want to get into this issue.
Open the door and walk out into the fresh air. Depending on family issues you are free as a bird.