Well I know so many, but I'll confine it to two stories.
1. When I was dealing with my abuse issues there was one elder in the White Rock congregation who came regularly to "encourage" me and that was Mike Thoman. Yep, Jesika's dear old dad. What makes this so bad was while I told me some of my abuse memories, he was treating Jesika and her sister terribly. I won't uncover her completely but it angers me so much at how two-faced he was being to me. But then, he was acting like a typical elder. Of course he was the one who told me that "Jehovah doesn't care about your petty little problems because he's got more important things to worry about."
2. Shortly after this my mother died (hooray!). Richard Rouse (I think he went to Cedar Hill back then) gave the funeral talk. Even though I was a good little JW in very good standing I was banned from the funeral. I was told later that there was a big picture of my mother, father and two sisters taken a few months before she died. Well Mr. Rouse gave his little talk and he deliberately left my name out of the surviving family. Seems he didn't approve of me.
Reading through this thread makes you realize how mean elders are and how much pain and hurt they have caused to so many people. And sadly it still goes on.