"meeting that finished at half nine or ten in the evening."..
Once my wife relied on bro uber to pick the family yup and get them home from such a meeting. As he is one who talks on and on and on after meetings my family got home after 10.00pm.
My wife said no more if I couldn't take them they didnt go.
Once when I visited my sibling and his uber wife as we sat back with a hot drink after Thurs night double meeting she was going on (for my benefit) about the meetings...points.. this that blah. I looked at the wall clock and said we would be just getting home about now. (It was understood with kids to bed to school tomorrow..) and as some say here ....crickets.