We both are 21 years old.
We both are 21 years old. I am almost done with my study and working on
to become one of an unbaptized publisher. my gf is baptized and is
doing special pinoeer this month. We love each other deeply and believe
that we are meant to be together in many ways. We have been secretely
dating for 3months and everything was good except several suspicions
from her sister till today. We were talking to each other at a coffee
shop in the morning and we were holding our hands together on the table
while waiting for our drinks. There was one lady who was continuously
looking at us with frown upon her face (my gf didn't see her first cause
she was standing behind her I guess) and she turned away when I looked
at her. My gf then saw her and told me that she needs to go say hi
because she knows her. the lady approached me later and asked my name
and which congregation I go to. She was a wife of an elder at her
congregation. Nothing has happened yet, but we both are afraid what is
about to come to us. I have never regret about becoming a JW regardless
of oppositions from parents ( I can't tell them because they are oppose
to JW and believe in other religion) , but thinking of not being able to
see her drives me crazy and I feel lost and can't stop questioning myself about my decision being JW for the first time thinking that I can't even love someone in a way that I want to when I love her with all my heart.. I need support ...