just to update and bring this back to the top of the list again...
My stepmother went out of her way yesterday to comment on the picture of my sister that is also on my webpage. So she basically identified herself as the one responsible for the situation. She is being cruel to my sister, but I can't get my sister to do anything about it. She won't even talk back or refuse to accept Ruth's crap. You can bet if I was there it would not be happening. But my sister is disabled and feels like she needs this job.
I am sending my stepmother a Mother's Day card this year. Just my way of letting her know that I am still around.....and aware.