Angel listen I didnt even get to the end of your post before I had to reply.
Listen I don't know where you are but if you are in the US you need to get hold of Steve Hassans office. He can do whats called a "supervision" with your therapist.
He obviously does not understand what he is dealing with here is a cult.
Listen you wouldn't get a gynaecologist to give you brain surgery would you? Get yourself some specialist help to protect your family, do it asap ring Hassans office at least for a recommendation
good luck sister D