This is to answer a request by Eden on page 3.
Hi Eden Do you remember Oompa's story?
He committed suicide three years ago:
In his own words: http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/users/28147/oompa/posts
From what I remember Oompa was seriously hurt in a motorcycle accident, underwent an operation and blood was used. He says he didn't know they transfused him. Somehow the Elders found out and he was DF.
His wife divorced him and his family two girls(?) shunned him. This might have been 7 years ago.
He continued to employ several JW's in his business and possibly his ex wife as well.
When he committed suicide it was major shock on this forum. Then the notice of his death was posted by family which was as cut and dry as his shunning and that caused a major out cry here. A few here on this forum wrote a new notice that filled in the blanks about his life and who he really was....... in no small part he was loved by many of us....... and his home newspaper published it.
I believe and maybe others will confirm that his story covers your request for a personal account of being DF and shunned. Best of all you have access to every word he wrote. So it would be Oompa telling his first person account.
His passing was one of the worst days I experienced on this forum. If your interested and need help researching him let me know.