utopian.......mother to mother, if my child was in a chat room, you knew she was young and you knew that at times that the talk wasn't appropriate for someone her age-would you turn away and not say anything? Would you not show concern? Good Lord.......don't you think that XW and I, both being mothers of girls the same age feel some sort of maternal instincts? If you would turn away.....shame on you! We were just showing concern for a young child. A CHILD! And for all you others that bawk at my concerns.....I can't believe that you think nothing of it! Would you carry on the same conversations face to face w/a child? There is a time and a place and I was just expressing concern over that.
Now......to address your daughter's needs after leaving the borg.......my God, woman.......do you think her being unchaperoned in an adult chat room is the most healthy action for her? So many other healthier choices for you to help her make. She is a CHILD........she needs to be in an age appropriate situation.
Anyone who has been on this board long, knows that daytime chat is completely different than nightime chat. Doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure that out. What you do w/your child is up to you.......what I do w/my child is up to me. BUT........I will not set back and not say anything. It is my opinion, I feel STRONGLY about it and am entitled to express it.
BTW, your daughter WAS not attacked. You are probably dealing with emotions of a 12 year old......