Husband has expressed to me that he would choose Jehovah over me
I'd say it's time to tell hubby that your willing to sit in on Family Worship Night so that he can help answer all of the sincere doubts that you've kept bottled up for soooo long. (It's best if your doubts started from questions that you couldn't give the answer to a workmate, or Bible Student, or family member. NOT apostate sites.)
If he can explain this overlap crap, let me know as I'd love to hear a reasonable explanation.
Or, if he can explain why "blood fractions" do not violate the command to "abstain from blood", send me a PM. I'd love to hear that, too. And how does this new "blood policy" that allows "some" blood not violate the command to neither "add to" nor "take away" from God's Word.
Then there are all the failed End of the World dates. Don't get it from online sources. Go to the KHall library (with the dates you need gleaned from jwfacts) and make copies. (You know apostates change those pdf documents that are available online, so you need the originals.) Then ask him to reconcile all that with Deut. 18:20-22 & Luke 21:8.
I think being "sincere" and subtle will win out over being "nuclear".