Brummie: "Newlight, you want proof for how he has benifited from getting a kick up the ass?"
No, that is not what I wanted you to provide proof for. I wanted you to PROVE that Yiz was NOT doing all he could at this time to solve his problems.
Brummie: "Yiz someone needs to give you a kick up the ass in order for you to get up and do something in order to help yourself"
The above statement implies that you THINK Yiz is lazy. I want you to show me proof that Yiz IS just being lazy and really does need to be kicked in the ass. Do you REALLY KNOW how much or how little Yiz is doing? All you really know is what Yiz writes on the forums.
My point being - unless you have been with Yiz in person, you don't REALLY know how much or how little Yiz is really doing.
Yiz came to this forum pleading for help. In his mind "help" meant money. When posters gave him only advice to help him get that money, he started to follow that advice. I do not consider Yiz's lack of knowledge as "needing to be kicked up the ass."
You do not need to be Sooo mean to Yiz, he is dealing with enough stress, you do not need to create more stress for him with insults of lazyness.