Actually she said that one of the reasons that treating a pedophile is so difficult is that they are so self-centered and narcissitic that the victim's pain is irrelevant. She said they would absolutely refuse to discuss the abuse they inflicted, but would rather instead be much more willing to talk about the hurts and abuses that had been inflicted upon THEM. She did say that in her opinion a pedophile could not be cured simply because they absolute refuse to take responsibility for their rapes of children. One thing she told me has always stuck with me however, and that was the story one pedophile told her about how he selected his victims. He would look for the happiest child, one that was laughing and had a bright innocence to them and then he would "wipe that smile off their face".
I believe these men are evil, pure and simple. Evil does not want to be reformed.