remember it's the right religion and we need to put all that aside.
...my mom said this isn't you! You have always been sorry and wanted to do the right things and come back! She was certain that deep down I know what's right and that basically my husband is the one brainwashing me.
I have been right there. My JW wife is so sure it's the right religion because of the trinity and the cross and neutrality and being so much higher in morals than the world. (I know that's not true, but that's what she knows.) That's a hard suit of armor to penetrate.
My JW mother is so sure I was stumbled and want to go back one day. No matter how I state that is not so, she doesn't hear it.
I wish I had some great answers for you. For a long-haul help, read Steve Hassan's books to see how you might help dangerous mind-control cult members to slowly see through the lies. I am still working on it.