I think it was Jung who said "Show me a man who is Normal, and I will cure him".
I certainly think that when I was a JW most of my fellow JW's worried all the time about what the other JW's thought about them, and a close second came what the "world" thought about them.
I was never too bothered about what fellow JW's thought, or what "worldly" people thought to a great degree, which used to frustrate my JW parents, and later Mrs Phizzy, no end.
Now I try to live my life as Oubliette's post 4065 above, but I really do not give a thought to JW's and what they may think beyond that.
I celebrate Birthdays and Christmas openly, I Vote in Elections, I donate Blood.
JW's can think, say and do whatever they like, I am free of that silliness.