TTATT said-
My dad has strictly told me to not tell anyone about TTATT, and definitely not my mom. He vouches for me moving to a different city and fading on my own terms there. He has said, "you can move, I can't..." when I suggest he start fading... see, technically, I have nothing to lose, but it's my dad who has a 30-year marriage on the line. It reallly is ...
Oh, well there you go: you DO have an exit strategy, after all....
He's saving you, letting you go first (he's woken up, and doesn't want you to pay the price for THEIR bad decisions). Then he's decided if it blows up his marriage, at least you are free.
Stick to the agreed-upon plan, and don't BLOW IT for YOUR DAD due to your guilt! You don't have the luxury of such emotions right now, as the situation of extricating yourself from a cult is not exactly normal.
Adam