I remember your post from before. You knew they would not toast at weddings. I know it's stupid ,but was a toast so important to you that you let it get you to the point of damaging your relations with your husband and his family. I married a Catholc, and had a small wedding, but being I was raised a JW It never entered my mind to have a toast.
Chill out ! Don't sweat the small stuff.......Pick your battles. You don't have to live with his family ( thank God ) So just be nice and keep away from them as much as possible.
I would not like it if my husband made me choose between him and my sister all the time. He never has because he knows I love her. Don't play that game whatever you do.
They came to your wedding so that's good. They were probably not very warm to you because to them you were living in sin ( if you were living together ) Maybe now that your married it will be better. Give it a chance.
I think about the toast thing..... Clinking glasses at a BQ might be different then at a wedding ( to them ) and their crazy rules. They will not throw rice at a wedding either... But would throw it for ?? a joke or something
JW's aways have to talk about how bad the world is getting. That is their thing. It keeps them thinking the new world is coming soon. They NEED to think that. So when they say that to you, just tell them that crime rates are going down. Do the research.... THEY ARE....lol......that will shut them up fast because they can't handle the truth.......That goes for any subject earth quakes ect. Do the rsearch...
My best advice is just laugh, they say and do funny things........you can scream or laugh....I say laugh.....I'm laughing right now thinking of them all sitting at the table making a fool of their selves by not toasting.......they must have looked stupid......but You made them look that way...if you knew what would happen....not so nice of you right?
I had a good childhood growing up a JW. Yes I missed out on things, but if you never had them you don't know. My mom was the best. So if he says it was good, believe him. Please be happy. Don't let this darken your marriage. If you are in good health that is the main thing.......HUGS
Sherry.............