ok so I read the entire thing. Not going to lie.......it was long.
It means something to us that you told us your story. I am sorry for what you have gone through. I wish there was a way you could have faded out. JW's are all about technicalities. If you were not disfellowshipped (DA), they could technically still speak with you. But maybe it is best they don't. While I have no idea what it is like to be gay, and quite honestly probably deal with at least a small amount of prejudice regarding homosexuals, nobody should be treated like that by their family. It blows my mind that people could actually think they are doing something "godly", by rejecting their own children.
It speaks volumes about how they handed their minds over to someone else. The best thing you can do is live your life WELL. I mean that. Live your life well. Use it and become stronger than ever. Your life has just begun, it is not over.