Spender; whilst I don't think anyone would dream of contesting your right to an opinion, if you start off saying
"don't get too full of yourself"
... and then say;
"I wouldn't even put myself in a situation like that"
"Before you try to remove the splinter from my eye, remove the rafter from yours"
"Is the lack of dignity the "main point" i'm missing here?"
"I guess I'm the only one who recognizes the importance of keeping promises"
... there is a more than minor risk that people will think YOU are the one full of yourself, especially when you lapse into Watchtowerese;
"i definitely commend you for that"
The word commend in that context is SO Dubby!!
Like I say, I'm not having a go at you spender, you're entitled to think what the hell you like, but I don't think you have thought about the way it makes you sound. You can give an opinion without making it sound like you are so damn wonderful yourself. I doubt if that was your intent, but I think it is what you achieved.
All the best