For me lately it's the why have children in this system, why not wait until the new system.
Soon after my husband and I were married, we had a few "scares" I might be pregnant so we decided, why have children in this rotton world, let's just wait and have children in the NS, totally thinking it was our decision not influenced by anyone (yea right)...so my husband had a procedure done, no chance of us having surprise children and everything was fine.... until we awakened.
Now, myself not even knowing for sure what God has planned for us, we cannot have children. Yes we have talked about adopting and yes we can love that child like our own, but we are going to miss out on the two of us making a life and it growing in me. Him putting his hand on my belly and seeing what our child would look like.
The feelings came back hard for me today because I finally started reading CoC. And that was one of the first comments Franz made. Or I should say what Rutherfraud (He was such an @$$) said at the convention and now his stupid comment is still doctrine for the JW's and now we have missed out on having our own children.
So that's my issue.