You definately treading on family breaking ground here.
if ya want ya family gone continue....
thats where it is going to lead you.
remember they are pressuring your wife at the hall also. she probably doesnt tell you.
when i was initially out they used to take my wife aside straight after the meetings (every meeting asking her what i was saying!),, private chats 1-1,, 2-1...etc.
She was fairly strong but they would break her down into tears evry time.
It was a deliberate ploy to destroy my family and seperate us,, IT WORKED!.
They know exactly how to control you wife,,, especially if one of them has the hots for her.
They WANT YOUR HEADSHIP as their own...
Be very careful. Once you open up your home to them their presence is already inside your domain.
if your wife cannot see whats hapening you are going down, it is just a matter of time.
forget these fools and if you love your wife, and family concentrate on gaining her trust and love so that they cannot touch it.
try reasoning with her,, something i didnt do.. i walked away... i could see nothing was going to change.
she stil faithfully going and got a divorce - loosing your family hurts, it takes years to recover.
DONT OPEN THAT DOOR UNLESS YOU WANT A BAD ENDING or you want to go back to them as a family.
there is no other choices.