Hello and welcome. I'm glad you're free of the WTBS but it does sound as if you've found yourself stuck in an isolated no mans land without friends or much support. Is that the way you want it or are you both struggling to mix in the 'world'? If its the latter, don't be, there are some fine people to befriend.
Loz x
Edited to add: Its just a question of making the first moves to build a new life.