A warm welcome HelpMeBelieve!
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Two brief comments:
Apostasy is "spiritual unfaithfulness". Spiritual adultery, fornication, prostitution. Since ALL religion is a snare and a racket, and from the devil (according to Rutherford), ALL religionists are guilty of apostasy. JWN is not a pro-religious website. Although many here accept the label it more appropriately belongs to the Watchtower ruling religious clergy class.
Sometimes people project the darkness in themselves on to others, and then punish their target for that darkness. This can (somewhat simplisticly) be called "Freudian projection" of the "Jungian shadow" in the world of Psychology (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychological_projection and http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shadow_%28psychology%29).