Six I understand your comparison. Of course the first time you stick a cigarette in your mouth, you know you're doing something that might hurt you, might be wrong. The first time you stick a Big Mac in your mouth you certainly don't have those concerns.
But as far as DFing a smoker. I find it curious that the only help the society is willing to offer is some prayers. Yeah that'll work.
Of course now you're talking to someone who has always been oppossed to shunning. That is as unloving an act as can be. Especially when you consider the society will hide a child molester, unless the child molester isn't being used.
Sorry if I come off the angry old guy here on this topic. I suppose I always will be. People like simplesally make it easy to stay angry about it.
Never Squat With Yer Spurs On