I haven't posted here in a while, but I thought this was worth mentioning, and I just wanted to vent about it.
My brother and sister-in-law, who are now divorced, bought my niece a clarinet about a year ago, so she could play in the band at school. She loves it more than anything in the world. One day last week, her grandmother found out about this and got all upset about it. She lectured my niece about how she shouldn't be playing in the school band (apparently her eternal salvation is at stake for playing the clarinet). My niece called her mom at work, in tears over what her grandma had said, and worried that she was going to have to quit band.
The amount of guilt bestowed upon JWs, especially young ones, just makes me ill. What makes this worse is that this woman won't associate with her own daughter, who is now DF'd, and treats my brother like the devil, because she blames him for her daughter being DF'd. And yet they still allow her to see her grandchildren.