Guys infront of me on the check out line would paid for my coffee often. Never once had I noticed their attention toward me. I was a uber modest and focused JW. Upon learning at the cashier that mine was paid already by someone I would chased after kind(?) man and offered them Watchtower magazine or tract to show my appreciation.
Most people in my KH were shocked when they learned my engagememt to my current husband. They all thought I would ended up married to this another brother. Turn out this pleasant brother had been pursuing me in obvious ways that got eveyone's attention except mine. It was a news to me! He did everything, looking back, to get my attention except asked me out. Talking about being senseless woman!
Don't get your feeling hurt if your attention gets ignored. Some women are not looking at their surroundings but very focused.
Do women like being checked out?-I have to see if I ever catch one. My answer for that will be 'uncomfortable' for now.