It seems many are attending without wanting to be there at all.
What suggestions can we offer?
I was wondering how this might pan out:
"My dear wife/husband, I have a question which I am waiting on Jehovah for an answer for. I am really struggling with the meetings while this is on my mind. So I prefer to return once I fully understand and am happy with the answer. I need to understand fully what "legalism" and its exact opposite are, and how this relates to "Learning from an Experiment That Failed".
You could just keep insisting you don't get it, and keep asking carefully placed clarifying questions, to make them keep explaining in detail, until you see in their eyes that they finally get it!!!
Anyway I wonder what gems the resident panel of JWN experts might come up with...