Barbara - thank so much for your insight into this subject. I was interested to hear your take on things. It is fascinating that at least one senior figure at the Watch Tower raised warning flags 20 years ago that the Society was on a wrong course with this issue, but that this person was arrogantly ignored. Peloyan's words to you recognize the fact that there are an inordinate number of experiences depicting the "happily ever after" scenario of spousal abuse in Watchtower literature, and related from convention platforms. It is such a shame that Peloyan's moderating influence is no longer felt. Although the latest material on domestic violence helps to highlight the fact that the Society could not possibly be God's channel, it also potentially puts women in harm's way - and it is for this reason that I genuinely wish it had not been published.
Roski - you experience is similar to Barbara's, namely your meeting a senior figure who could see the damaging effect that the Society's approach to domestic abuse was having on women. It's such a shame that, in their arrogance, the Governing Body refuses to listen to such individuals.
soft+gentle - whilst I commend you for your expressed attempts to embrace lateral thinking, I am still a bit confused (and frankly saddened) by your comments, particularly comments like this:
But from what I have seen most of the truly horrorifying cases of domestic abuse are not recent - by recent I mean in the last 10 years. It seems to me that nowadays couples do call the police and separation is encouraged.
How could you possibly know the above? Do you have regular interractions with every body of elders around the globe? Do you hold some lofty position within the Society (with oversight of these matters) that I am unaware of? It would really help if you could limit your comments on such a sensitive subject to those that are based on facts rather than sweeping generalizations that you cannot possibly substantiate. Excuse my blunt reaction to your comment, but given the severity of the topic, I think a bit more discretion is called for.
Cedars