Not a good time...part of next week's WT is about apostates....very firm wording.
fyi-.....I just faded away and it has been 18 years. I never talk to my family about my thoughts because it will only cause trouble. I still read some of the literature on-line; but I have to filter in my mind what I am reading....I separate what is fact and what is an interpretation..... My biggest problem was the stating of some beliefs as FACTS (such as 1914) when they are really interpretations or conclusions, and making statements that are misleading....for example, a recent WT said..."the first century Governing Body..." when there really was no 1st century "governing body".
Just get busy and fade away.....in time your family will give up trying to convince you to get active. You have to play the game with their rules....so if you just get inactive you still keep your family contact.