Yes I still have family inside, but in no way I want back So far, the only "shunning" action that I saw was from two of my young cousins who used to work for me and a couple of weeks back they mumbled to my wife (not a JW) because they did not have the balls to tell directly to me - something with their principles in life and that they will cease coming to work (this happened 3 months after my DFing). But my father&mother are still talking to me, we visit each others weekly, etc.
I know living well is the best revenge and I am doing it! But you also know they say revenge is an act of passion and vengeance is an act of justice. And I am a very passionate person (and was back in time when I was in the brainWashtower).
My initial letter did formulate some accusations to them and it seems they finally ignored it, so I don't like to leave things unfinished. More than that one moron elder which was calling me during their invitations to the JC was shouting on the phone that HE HAS THE RIGHT OF LIFE OVER ME, because Jehovah is giving that to him. Can you imagine what a fu**ing bastard?
Today I am going to KH in the evening - I'll give an update later.