Awesome thread, Loz!
This is helpful to me, personally, as it seems I attract a bully or three on my threads from time to time.
I take the bate, like an idiot.
No more! A bully loves attention. They love to hurt others because just maybe they are hurting, too.
You know, share the pain?
That is not my responsibility nor my debt to pay.
So why do I take their bate and pay the price of their pain when I don't owe it?
This is where self-esteem comes in.
Out with the doormat and in with the self-esteem and worth!
I didn't realize that it's a common problem with many.
We really do help each other on this board, don't we