Speaking as somebody whose whole life has been totally messed up by following an elder's instructions to "find another job":
- don't, don't, don't take any notice of this jerk, or those like him!
As other posters have already stated, neither he nor anybody else is going to pay your bills for you, and your first concern is the welfare of your child.
Unfortunately, your experience is all too typical of those becoming involved with any cult:
- You first go through the "Lovebombing" phase, in which everyone appears to be very loving, helpful and understanding.
- Once, though, they feel that they have got you sufficiently snared, they start to reveal their true colors. In the case of the JWs, this includes their applying pressure on you to become an unpaid distributor of Watchtower literature.
Stevenson, in his 1967 book 1975 - Year of Doom? , stated "No other religious group would demand so much from its members, in return for so little." Many - even the majority - of us on this site found out the hard way that Stevenson's observations are all too true.
With this in mind, you might well want to consider whether any further involvement with them is wise!